Responsibility
Bismillahirrahmanirrahim,
It's been a long time since the last time I posted here. The last one was about New Year's resolution. Let's see how far I've come..
Actually for the past 4 months, there's a lot of things happened to me (as always) and I am trying to become a better person each day. Recently, my classmate and I, we did discuss about our responsibility as an adult. How things have changed from our childhood times until now. I mean, sometimes the changes are good but most of them, at least to us are not good. It doesn't bring any good to the society nowadays.
For example, the use of media social. Although the main aim is to bring people around the world closer but nahh personally, I think it has it's own disadvantage. Look at our lives back then without all these media social platform, we still survived
Oh well, I didn't mean to talk about the disadvantages of media social. I'm writing here to talk about my life and the responsibilities that I've come to learn and that I should do it just because I'm the nation's hope of the future.
One of the things keep coming into my mind is MONEY. I don't know why but I just find it quite disturbing. With all the economic growth doesn't seem stable at the moment, the living expenses has become even more expensive and how hard it is to get a job nowadays. It makes me keep wondering if I could make it to the third phase of my life - finding a job. Probably finding a job wasn't as hard as I thought. But finding a job that is related to my field of study probably the hardest thing to do (correct me I'm wrong. But it's just my opinion anyway. You may have other opinions).
I am so worried that if I wouldn't be able to find a suitable job for me, what would I do with my life? Because for all I know, my main goal is to make my mom and dad happy. I want them to take a rest once I landed a secure place in the industry. I want to give them at least half of my salary to them. I want to go on a vacation with them and without doubt I want to pay for their expenses as well.
You know when I was a kid, I always thought that my parents weren't being fair to me. Why they always scold me for doing this and that but not scold my brothers for doing the same thing? Later when I grew up, I came to learn that they did that because they loved me. They feared that they are the biggest failure in educating their child. But how is that any different from my brothers?
I read from an article not long time ago, usually to the first born the parents will be extra strict or scold you for things that you don't understand why. The reasons are, you are the first child, the joy of happiness for your parents when you were born. And they are just becoming parents and therefore, they did not know how to educate a children properly (yet). As the second and third child comes next, they would be able to prepare themselves mentally and physically knowing how to handle children better.
There are always times when I despise my parents for being so strict, but as I grew up, I try to be more understanding and yeah I totally get it.
Actually, I was supposed to be writing about something else and I'm not sure how it turns out to be this topic. But whatever, till next time.on the next post.
It's been a long time since the last time I posted here. The last one was about New Year's resolution. Let's see how far I've come..
Actually for the past 4 months, there's a lot of things happened to me (as always) and I am trying to become a better person each day. Recently, my classmate and I, we did discuss about our responsibility as an adult. How things have changed from our childhood times until now. I mean, sometimes the changes are good but most of them, at least to us are not good. It doesn't bring any good to the society nowadays.
For example, the use of media social. Although the main aim is to bring people around the world closer but nahh personally, I think it has it's own disadvantage. Look at our lives back then without all these media social platform, we still survived
Oh well, I didn't mean to talk about the disadvantages of media social. I'm writing here to talk about my life and the responsibilities that I've come to learn and that I should do it just because I'm the nation's hope of the future.
One of the things keep coming into my mind is MONEY. I don't know why but I just find it quite disturbing. With all the economic growth doesn't seem stable at the moment, the living expenses has become even more expensive and how hard it is to get a job nowadays. It makes me keep wondering if I could make it to the third phase of my life - finding a job. Probably finding a job wasn't as hard as I thought. But finding a job that is related to my field of study probably the hardest thing to do (correct me I'm wrong. But it's just my opinion anyway. You may have other opinions).
I am so worried that if I wouldn't be able to find a suitable job for me, what would I do with my life? Because for all I know, my main goal is to make my mom and dad happy. I want them to take a rest once I landed a secure place in the industry. I want to give them at least half of my salary to them. I want to go on a vacation with them and without doubt I want to pay for their expenses as well.
You know when I was a kid, I always thought that my parents weren't being fair to me. Why they always scold me for doing this and that but not scold my brothers for doing the same thing? Later when I grew up, I came to learn that they did that because they loved me. They feared that they are the biggest failure in educating their child. But how is that any different from my brothers?
I read from an article not long time ago, usually to the first born the parents will be extra strict or scold you for things that you don't understand why. The reasons are, you are the first child, the joy of happiness for your parents when you were born. And they are just becoming parents and therefore, they did not know how to educate a children properly (yet). As the second and third child comes next, they would be able to prepare themselves mentally and physically knowing how to handle children better.
There are always times when I despise my parents for being so strict, but as I grew up, I try to be more understanding and yeah I totally get it.
Actually, I was supposed to be writing about something else and I'm not sure how it turns out to be this topic. But whatever, till next time.on the next post.
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